If I had an advice to give to all the
youngsters out there, it would go like this:
‘Young woman, guard your body. Your body
produces and conserves life. Your ability to reach your dreams will be strongly
influenced by your capacity to guard yourself against premature sex. Many young
women have lost their ways and dreams after failing to protect themselves
sexually. And it is not just about STDs. Besides sexually transmitted diseases,
other misfortunes can arise could arise from premature sex such as unplanned
pregnancy…I have seen so many young
,beautiful and gifted girls losing it
all for short moments of pleasure. They failed to go to college, they gave up
on their dreams or got stuck into an unbearable job because they had to feed
their babies. I will just tell you what my grand ma would have said: ‘guard yourself!’ ( And this applies to guys too.)
Young woman, by guarding your body up to the right time, you
increase your chances of realising your dreams.
And to all the young guys out there:
‘You might be strong, young and still think
that you have plenty time ahead of you. To a certain extent, it might sound
true. But from another point of view let me tell you that time flies. The best
advice I can give you, is to stick to your common sense.
Common sense is a key characteristic of
wisdom.
At young age, boys often ask themselves the
great question:
‘What makes a real man?’
The answer to this question might vary but
I am quite pretty sure of one thing: drinking alcohol, living in promiscuity
or having money, won’t make you a real
man.
A real man knows to keep his head awake
through common sense. And the decisions He makes, are sourced from Wisdom. A
real man understands that each action (good or bad) has an effect. It’s pure
common sense. A real man decides often, and constantly refers to Wisdom to make
decisions. A real man takes
responsibility for his decisions. If you can hardly take responsibility for
your decisions, then you are still a boy.
Keep your common sense, because without it,
you will hardly grasp your future. Without it, you fail to raise a family.
Without it, you will not acquire wealth. Without it, you will fail to nurture
great relationships.
Maurice Kande.
P.S: ‘You might not be young, but if you
found this post useful, please share it with a young person that you might
know. It will definitely help.’